Sunday, March 25, 2012
Practicing My Religion Away from Home
Finding a local church, temple, mosque, or other places of worship requires just a little bit of research and can help you feel much more comfortable in your new environment. Often the best place to start is to visit the Intercultural or International Center at your school to find out how to contact the school chaplain.
Each University has a different chaplain for each faith, and this person will have information about where the closest service is near you, and when. In many cases, services are held right there on campus. In exploring these on campus communities you will find a network of peers who have something important in common with you. Venturing out to different places of worship in the greater community outside of school is another way to meet Americans of all ages, and to learn more about American culture.
If you are going to be in Rhode Island during a major religious holiday such as Ramadan, meet with your International Student Advisor to discuss how your routine will change and how to balance studies with your religious obligations. It is also important to talk with your family about any holidays that require fasting, or a changed eating schedule, so that they can try to accommodate your needs. This is a wonderful opportunity for you to share with them an important part of who you are.
Your family will also be excited to introduce you to the holidays that they observe, such as Easter or Passover which are approaching. If they ask you to join them for a religious service, you are welcome to go and see what it is like. It is totally ok, however, for you to gently say no if you feel uncomfortable.
During the holidays it is common to feel a bit homesick or lonely. Lean on your host family, and keep in touch with your advisor so that you can have the support you need if you start feeling down. We are all here for you if you need anything!
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